Yesterday I posted my paper Radical Feminist’s White Feminism Problem in the group Radical Feminist Discussing White Privilege.
I simply posted the article and made no statements at all. About 10 minutes later my article was erased and Spider Redgold made this post & this conversation ensued. Spider was engaging in high levels of disrespect towards me but I was working to continue the conversation. Tonight when I went to see if anyone else had commented I learned that Spider had thrown me out of the group. I contacted Jaime Walton who told me she had also been thrown out of the group as well.
Spider PMed me on Oct 22nd after we talked about how I am both Choctaw and Cherokee in the group. So it’s a damn LIE that Spider is pretending she had no clue I am a Native. Spider has also been on my friends list for a considerable time, at least several years. She knows Damn Well I am a Radical Feminist.
Spider in the midst of this all establishes this poll. Let’s all Center Spider
At a point, perhaps she and Joy spoke (unsure) but Spider made this statement then reposted my paper in a comment underneath.
As a Side Note Spider also was “NAWWing” here.
This Morning Spider Redgold made a post on Her FB page (not in the group) all about how she has been victimized. Here you can see her lying about how some secret invisible admin threw her out of the group too. That is not even possible. After she was confronted about it she did delete the group or take it all the way offline. We know that she did this because we were still able to pull the group up in a search which we have screenshots of.
I took this screenshot this morning about 11ish am Central Standard US time. Later Spider took the group offline after we busted her out on her bogus lie. White Feminist Lie routinely. Abusers Lie. Racist’s are abusers.
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WOC and Anti Racist’s are NAMING THE PROBLEM. Spider is not the victim. White Fragility is Aggressive & she began engaging in aggression the moment she erased my paper & admonished me for having written it and shared it in that group. To say that women Naming Spider’s behaviors for what they are is Victim Blaming. Spider Alone is responsible for her own actions. She is being abusive and sisterhood doesn’t require certain women endure abuse on the chance that the other woman may at some point see the error of her ways. That is dysfunctional and an Enabling relationship. Sisterhood is about uplifting sisters to realize they are empowered within themselves to Liberation themselves from Patriarchy by unpacking (or for us Native’s: Decolonizing our minds). We do that through Honesty and Solid Boundary Setting. Spider is empowered within herself and NO ONE outside of Spider holds the power to interfere with that.